As I wish celebrities happy birthday on my Blog….today it’s my turn and from my breakfast table in Newport Wales, United Kingdom….I celebrate myself and thank God almighty for adding another year to my life!!!!
Emma Watson, the “Bling Ring” star believes the social network such as facebook and twitter have negative impact on young children. This is the fact tthat these youngsters start being conscious of their looks at an early stage.
This was not the case back in the days before the inception of some of these popular networking site. I totlly agree with Emma, reason being that, young children now sexualise themselves to look hot and sexy on their facebook pictures, meeting strangers and some of them ieven end up being muredered.
I urge parents to monitor their children’s activities and also make them understand how gorgeous they look without stupid make up and an early age.
However, some mums contribute to this as well….they start painting their baby girl’s nails at a very tender age, applying lipstick and other make up on their faces. How would you ever expect the child to ever feel comfortable without make up? Please ladies take note…and some weak dads too..yes I said it weak dads!
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According to reports, the young pretty girl in the above picture is Genevive’s teenage daughter Chimebuka whom she had at the age of 16.
It has also been speculated that this daughter of hers now resides in United States with her Dad. Hopefully, someday the paparrazzi’s will get a shot of who this man is….but in as much as I want to know for aproko sake, I do think people deserve privacy with their personal lives *winks*
Sad but true, people don’t go for soft, apologizing, shuffling, sweet, little, sugary partner anymore. Good women like real men and good men like real women too, it’s a two-way process!
A. Confident, but not arrogant.
B. Cool, not hot-headed.
C. One who knows where he/she is going in life.
D. A man who does not let women control and manipulate him. Women don’t like weak-back men. Men on the other hand prefer a strong willed woman without Low self esteem.
E. A clean and neat dresser man/woman
F. One who can share his/her true feelings well.
G. One who is authentic and unique.
H. A man who “knows” how to handle her and a woman who knows how to press his right buttons.
I. A man/woman who can make her/him laugh in their saddest moments.
J. A man/woman who will not let him/her have his/her way all of the time.
K. A man/woman who likes to have sex often and who enjoys sex. Note: no one likes a sex maniac, crazy stuff isn’t it?
Good-luck everyone, try and work on these qualities, and apply it in your relationships and I bet you’ll be grateful for reading this.
A couple were mercilessly attacked in a village where they camped near Datia India on Friday night.
The raped woman and her husband had been cycling from Orchha to Seonda and had decided to camp in that village over the night(click to) Continue reading
In the remaining days of this month, the Lord almighty shall give you good opportunities that will bring financial upliftment to you and your household. Say Amen if you believe and hit share button to bless other friends and families!
I was shocked to my bones while watching the match between Chelsea and Swansea during the capital one semi-final. It was around 80mins into the game when midfielder Eden Hazard was seen kicking the ball boy while on the floor (possibly on his ribs) apparently for delaying or holding the ball too long. While Eden’s frustration is quite understandable, his actions are totally not justifiable. The 22 year old Belgian was immediately given a red card by referee Chris Foy and is most likely to receive further penalties from the FA, sadly all the bullying could not get Chelsea the win they desperately sought for as the game ended in a 0-0 draw with Swansea progressing to the final with a 2-0 win on aggregate..
“The Belgian kicked the ball boy who had failed to return the ball promptly after it had gone out for a goal kick.” Chelsea on Twitter
The degree of injury on the boy cannot be confirmed yet but but he is seen holding his ribs, although some footballers claim the ball boy might be faking the pain….where did he learn it from if not from the footballers themselves…lol
Video below not for the faint heart
Thumbs up to the Welsh club for gallantly protecting a 2-0 lead from the first leg two weeks ago , to reach their first major cup final in their 100-year history.
100th year anniversary commemorations of the Titanic has just got me reflecting over the titanic movie (originally released in 1997) which for so many years have caused un-told havoc in relationships as more and more girls have asked their partners if they were willing to make the same sacrifice as the lead roleJack Dawson (played by Leonardo DiCaprio) while some others have praised the movie as the greatest love story of all time…. So here is my own analysis and deductions from the movie and peoples reaction to the movie..
Why would you claim you love me so much and suggest I die in your place? really is that what love is about? should it not be reciprocal? should we not both be willing to die for each other? why do ladies think they have more right to life than their beloved male partners? especially in this day and age where women fight for equality with their male counterparts.
I also believe Jack (in the movie) must have been suffering from deep sense of worthlessness and he had little or no value for his life, after-all he was willing to risk his life to be on the ship illegally, ( remember in those wicked days trespasser in ships were often thrown overboard into the sea if/ when caught).
Based on the above Jacks decision to sacrifice his life can only be as a result of very poor self-esteem and worthlessness, he should have made more efforts to stay alive in fact to some extent was a selfish move because he has left Rose DeWitt Bukater ( Played by Kate Winslet) to live alone to bear the anguish of losing the love of her life and worse of all knowing that he died for her….
Ok thinking hat off, analytical mode de-activated ~~##~~ Emotional mode activated…. Rubbish! Yes indeed I want my man to be willing to die for me or doesn’t every woman *winks*
More news on the 100th year anniversary commemorations of the Titanic http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-northern-ireland-17701101
Rule number one: Cry on someone’s shoulder,
It is very much okay to cry for as long as you can, but only on someone’s shoulder. I mean someone you trust. It could be a bosom friend, siblings or parents. Make sure you hide nothing to them while expressing your feelings. Of course you not gonna cat or fake crying. You’ve gone through an emotional stress and while you relive the hurtful memories, you’ll somehow cry.
Please avoid locking yourself in the room alone crying and feeling suicidal, cos it’s one of the deadliest mistakes people make. Remember a problem shared is a problem half-solved. Instead stay with this trusted fella, you could play a cool slow music that can trigger your emotions and you can connect to the words, it often helps you cry. According to “There is something about telling it to another person that opens the floodgates” Thomas Stone
The crying session should all end in one day, please do not extend it to the second day after break-up.
Rule number 2. Put your feelings in writing (hey don’t bother about grammatical errors)
Write down all the things you disliked about your ex-partner, ranging from behaviors, bad habits, attitude, and communication. Practically, all the turn offs about your partner, warning: don’t even bother your pretty brain about any turn-on. The heading should start like things “things I dislike about you” or ultimately why you are not good for me, because if they were good for you and have your interest at heart, they won’t break up with you in the first place. When you are done, read it over and over again, until it sinks in. Note: don’t hate, hatred is a very bad way to end a relationship.
Rule number 3: Try to Love the new you without your partner
Go shopping, movies, beauty salon for a hair cut/styling and get a proper handsome/beautiful new look. You must change your old look with your ex-partner, switch to a new feel good look. Take a warm bath with Aromatherapy oils, cos it helps relax your emotions and you’ll smell good too. Interact with people, accept compliments but be careful not to get carried away by flatteries and please don’t over indulge yourself or go over board as you might going a little bit too far.
Rule number 4: concentrate more on people that matter to you
Spend quality time with family and friends and have a good laugh with them. If you are financially buoyant try engaging in some charitable activities, not just donating money but volunteering and actively getting involved while donating. Just try to occupy your mind with positive activities and events, but please don’t occupy your time with so many things to do in a bid to get over your ex. By so doing, you’ll be stressing yourself out and mentally torturing yourself, so occupy the mind and not your time with positive activities such as dancing to your favorite music, playing a fast music while jogging, watching comedy movies or series, going for comedy shows and also putting your emotion behind and work effectively if you have a daily job.
Rule number 5: Move on
Always remind yourself that life must go on, just because a relationship didn’t work doesn’t mean the world has ended. It only means a chapter has ended and a new chapter must be written in the book of your life!!! Let go of the emotions people often mistake as love, true love they say never dies. If it ends then it isn’t worth the stress and it isn’t true love. Dr Seuss says “Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened”. Give someone else when true love finds you, don’t force or hunt for it, it naturally comes to you if you are friendly and open hearted. Not the type that give in too easily. Try to be friends in order to study the new individual and ensure he/she will make a good partner.
Note: there is no guarantee these rules will 100% work for you as individuals differ. I have counseled people with my cry-therapy while they observed the add-on mentioned rules, which afterwards attested it worked for them. If after applying these rules you still feel depressed or you find it difficult to apply egosentrik rules, make your way down to your local counselor for further help. But my suggestion is to apply them positively as it is and you stand a chance of achieving better results.
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