Marriage or Money first???

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Dear Ego

I am a fresh graduate, just finished my masters degree in electrical electronics and have passed with Merit. I have also had a girlfriend for the past 4 years and although she has not  started pushing or bugging me yet for marriage; I know there is this unspoken expectation that soon after my masters, we should be getting married. I have often over-heard her folks ask her for how long more we want to wait before we tie the knot.

The thing is I have 2 very close friends who are older than me, actually both are in their late 30s but have very different lives.  Femi  married straight after he got his first job and now has kids and all , while Kunle went straight into contracting and business  and is still not married.
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